So 49th post…whoop whoop!!! Want to do two things tonight – say a special thank you to blogsville and my friends and tell you a true story using pseudo-names and I need your help on what the character should or shouldn't do.
First…. Thank you to my friends and the entire blogsville family for your support since I joined the community – when I started I used to talk about my boring self a lot – everyday activities from the internship, and about graduation and then HE……remember HE… you guys are mean sha, no one even asked of him anymore – e da o….lol, I kid, HE is fine and is a sweetheart…..HE jokingly asked me to marry him, well I think HE was joking….lol… not telling you my answer – u will find out soon enough if we do get married anyways…
Nways I digress, I just want to say thank you for all the encouragements, support, prayers, advice, love, kindness shown – it really has been terrific – I don't know why I even started blogging, but it has really been the best decision of my life – they say "writing works wonders" – and goodness gracious it has transformed my life….opened me up in ways I can't imagine – I am equally as open as I am private, it's funny cos I am talking to someone randomly and they tell me all these stuff they read on here –I'm wondering how they knew, sometimes I think cos people don't comment they don't read it– equally as secretive as I am a gbegborun (blogsville does that to you)
Thank you, Thank You, Thank You – I appreciate you all and God Bless and I hope you all had a wonderful weekend and have the best week ever – it's my week – y'all are starting the week right it's my birthday after all, lol and Myne Whitman's too (y'all go over and wish her a happy birthday as well) …..So yea that's that
On to the story
This is the story of Kola and Toyin – Kola is 21 and Toyin is 23 ….. Kola developed feelings for Toyin since he was 19 and dogged her day and night – Toyin thought he was cute and considered him a friend and about a year later she would make out with him and refused to have a relationship or sleep with him, she was still a virgin at this point too – but she also knew if she was going to have sex he wasn't going to be her first – so for a while they made out often and just kept it friendly – well somewhere in there she met someone else and they had sex, but things didn't work out ( is it just me or does it never work out with the first, they can't all be cads can they? Lol) well fast forward and now Kola and Toyin start a sexual relationship, body no be firewood - he was here and all the other guys who were interested in her just seemed to be far away – she hates long distance – nways so its Toyin's birthday a couple weeks back – and I'm wondering what special things she did with Kola, u know, "its ur birthday so you know you want to riiiidddeeee" – you know some of that birthday loving, gifts and the likes – and she goes not only does he just text and not call to say happy birthday, he doesn't show up for her bday dinner
Now me I'm gangsta like that – I won't say anything – it's an instant delete from my life – and if u try yourself – I can give u a freaking dirty slap – but I don't want to give her any such advice, really don't want to say anything and prolly won't but im just wondering what you think – what would you do? what should she do if anything at all?– and just your general opinion on why guys always fuck up a good thing or their thought process – please refrain from insulting Toyin I appreciate it …thank you
So imma gist you about the best friends party on Saturday and imma finally put a picture up, – my tummy is swollen o, I don't know what else to do o jare, o su mi… show me love, lol …..And of course it's a Monday so imma be doing my #Music Monday as usual… see u then….Happy birthday Myne Whitman and Happy birthday to me too