So I feel like I had to discuss some things that came up from THIS post. First off, let me say I don’t have it all figured out, those were just some things I was certain of, that are requirements. Secondly, I wasn’t trying to say the owner of the article was talking about relationships; I was trying to show the mindset of a guy who is infact not looking for a relationship. Thirdly somebody said “discard the list, once you see him you will know”. I don’t have a list, I don’t sit down thinking my man has to be 6ft & above (I’m 5’2 any man taller than that is tall enough, lol) or he has to have a certain profession, or this amount in his bank account & come from a certain part of the world.
No, I was saying he has to possess some certain values, that I know for me, will last me through the hard times and makes for great times. I’m saying for a woman who Is looking for a steady relationship, the kind that leads to marriage know what you want, have set ideas & principles so when you start talking to this man, you are not just easily influenced by what he says and you can tell real quick if the man is what you want.
I mean we could go into details about he must be from the same religion? Does he like sports? How’s his taste in music? Is he a democrat or republican? What his opinion on abortion & capital punishment? What’s his stance on the best way to discipline a child? Will you have a joint account? Do you like traveling & is he adventurous? Is he ok with me hyphenating my last name? I need not go on, all things that happen to matter me btw. You need to know. Like my uncle told me yesterday, if you always had a favorite flavor of ice-cream, you go into a new shop and are giving a whole bunch of new flavors, you are confused, way too many choices. If you don’t already know that you don’t like nuts on your ice-cream or candy or fruits, you will literally have to taste everything before you find the one you like. Jeeuxxx!!!! God forbid, hope you get my point sha, from my perspective that is. I totally respect where everybody is coming from and respect your opinions. I like to argue, forgive me J
On to the music…. because of what I do i.e. working with WPGM & Angonemi, and just having a lot of talented folks as friends, I get a lot of new music daily and some days its juts through reading other peoples blogs or something on the news or on TV, whatever. I decided to share with you some songs that I’ve come across, mostly thru WPGM (hence the
songs) – Enjoy UK
Ty – Emotions: He is Nigerian – Ben Chijioke, ilike
Wiley ft Emeli Sande – Never be your woman
Steph Jones – La La mens love – Ok he is American sha
Drake ft Little Brother & Dwele – Don’t you have a man – Ok he is Canadian
Esmee Denters – I like her, she is Dutch and WPGM cannot take credit for this one, lol
Tinie Tempah ft Chipmunk – I had to look for a song that had both them cos I didn’t want to go over 7 songs. Lol. Tinie is Nigerian Patrick Okogwu & Chipmunk is HOT!!!
And last but not least Chiddy Bang – Slow down; Chiddy Bang consists of Proto (Chiddy) & his DJ/ producer and yes he is Nigerian as well - Chidera "Chiddy" Anameg and on this song they had Eldee – its pretty dope if you ask me
That’s it folks – wishing you a great week, stay safe and smile, no sad face this week yea
P.S I LOVE YOU