Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Bad

My best friend and i were talking yesterday and i mentioned that i thought Tiger Woods was a bad man because of the way he cheated on his wife. Not so much that he cheated, but the manner in which he did.

She mentioned that a lot of the men we knew then would be considered bad men and it almost made me change my mind and say, i guess well they are not bad men, But, really and truly, i stick to it. Its one thing for you to have made a mistake by cheating once or maybe even three times on your lover, girlfriend, wife, boyfriend, husband etc.

However, i truly think that if you are a consistent cheat; you plan and execute it every time; you get caught, end with that one and then start again with another; the little twat you are messing with then has the guts to insult and disrespect said partner, something you have caused and tolerated, you can consider yourself anything but a bad person. In what universe? How is that even possible that someone can think of you as amazing or awesome?

I mean i know that a person is the sum of all their parts but let me define what bad is. According to the dictionary bad means "morally depraved or wicked". You are a bad, morally depraved and wicked person if you can continually hurt someone that much, consistently and calculatingly. I'm sorry, and it must be a hard truth when you think of the other parts, but this part, this part does not care that you are generous, kind, prayerful and whatever else. Because this part = unloving and i'm positive there can be no argument about this.

Thought about this all day and i figured i might as well release it so i don't over think it.

#Peace.Love.Ayomi

4 comments:

  1. LOL, I feel you. I don't know why people have this innate inability to recognize that someone they know or do dealings with could be a bad person. How can you say someone who maliciously and purposefully takes advantage, abuses, or hurts another person isn't bad...just because you know other people who do that? Personally I don't think cheating, even once, is a mistake and while that 1 time may not make you a complete scumbag, it certainly doesn't negate the fact that you did something very scumbaggish. But definitely if you're doing it over and over and over again. C'mon mehn.

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  2. Unsure why i am just receiving blog feeds from you! Didn't know you're back around.....Awesome!

    Yes unrelated to post......

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  4. Bluntly said. I totally agree. No need to sugar-coat the truth.

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